Week 3 - My proposal

So as a solution, instead of the path that is being follow by some Europeans countries and USA, I propose that a new legal framework should be planned and established. It is unjust that many same-sex couples that decided to live together be completely outside of legal rights as also obligations, things like healthcare rights, inheritance, or discriminatory behaviors should be contemplate by law, if not already, but through the light of this new legal frame, different in essence, even in name and purpose of the traditional marriage, but sufficient embracing to protect basic rights that should be attributed to this new legal agreement that could be called simply same-sex union.   


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